they all look really nice and I am struggling to choose one i like too.
they all seem very elegant and suit the type of site very well. i think i personally like the first design the most but the third design is very close too.
i don't really like the second one mainly because the header looks very rushed and simple.
I agree about the second one's header. I couldnt think of anything to fill the space. they gave me very little to work with.

Thanks dave
This is the one they chose. I just need some (hopefully positive) feedback on the flash. They wanted something simple and elegant that would showcase the diversity of their locations.
I'd love some feedback!
http://www.pilotdesigns.com/catering/
Hi,
I love the background effect.
The flash looks ok, I am not sure about the twist effect for the pictures to appear, looks a little tatty. Also it took 5 seconds to load on my broadband connection so some sort of loading bar is necessary. apart from that looks really good (Y)
EDIT: i have just noticed that the flash isn't on a rotation so once it has been through one it has stopped. i think it shoud either be rotating around or random so it finishes on a different image each time. also a quote from the couple might be nice to have on there.
i like the first one but the second one's colour scheme was better, just because it was lighter more wedding like it seems. It looks kind of Martha Steward type of style. (nothing against Martha). Yeah i agree with dave, u might want on adding a loading bar. Else it looks really good, just don't forget to add some kind of copyright on the bottom.
All look good, but I preffered the 1st one. forevagrey has a point about the color scheme, that made it hard for me to choose between the 1st and 2nd.